The Dream of true love, The dream can it be real?

Everyone says all your dreams can come true if go out and get it. This is not true, why? because if you dream of someone else no matter how hard you try or what you do if they do not have the same dream as you, then it will never come true no matter what.

Imagine a man loves a woman he has never met in person but has talked to her on the phone, messaged her, and interacted with her almost every day, knows everything about her and has revealed everything about him to her, sends her little messages every day to make her smile, she replies that it makes her day or smile, even makes her blush. Prays every day that she will finally take the next step, but she never does, she is an independent woman, she has a business to run, works long hours, is always on the go, has no time for a social life, only time for her and her daughter. The guy never gives up, keeps sending little messages, gets messages back even voice messages, sends her ones and she always responds that she loves them and it makes her day. But yet nothing, it never goes any further, Should the guy confess his love? doesn't she see it already? Hasn't she figured it out by now? or is she just being nice? too afraid the tell him she likes him as a friend only and nothing will ever become of it any farther than friends.

What does the man do? Give up? Try harder even though the fear of going too far and losing the friendship because it went from harmless flirting to being creepy is a possibility? But she is all he dreams about, praying that one day she will show up and take him away or start messaging more with him and then want to meet and go out to see what happens. Can they become best friends through the net and realize they should be together,

The fear--- The fear that she only thinks about him when he messages her but other than that he does not exist, Wouldnt she message more if she wanted more than friendship? Is she scared he will say no or does not want her? How do you cross that bridge and find out? it's a long very skinny rope bridge that hangs high over a deep gully with sharp rocks all the way down on the sides, a gully that goes for miles down until you hit the bottom, The winds swing the bridge back and forth. Do you cross the bridge? Do you pray you make it and just walk? What if the ropes break? What if the boards break and you fall?

Now you have to make the decision. Is it worth it? Is it worth trying? The dream is there on the other side waiting for you, but you don't know if she has the same dream.

if she does and the ropes break she can give you the wings to fly, she can be the wind that carries you to her.

But if she does not have the same dream then the ropes break and you fall feeling helpless as you plummet to the bottom, knowing the death of your dream is waiting for you at the bottom.

Reality can be a real bitch and she has no mercy for the weak and timid of mind and heart, she will take every opportunity she can to break your will, break your spirit and your heart, she loves to mess with your mind and toy with your life and make you remember that she runs the world.

So walk the bridge or just stay on the other side safe and sound hoping she will try the bridge, but what if she is seeing and feeling the same thing? What if she is too scared to try? What if both of you are waiting for the other person to make the first move? What if this? What if that? What if? What if? What if? What if?

For someone who suffers from severe anxiety, this is what they go through every day over all things, getting out of bed, facing the world, facing people even friends, all of the questions run through your mind driving you crazy, what if this person really doesn't like me? What if they are just being nice? What if? What if? What if? What if? it goes on like this from the time you wake up until you go to sleep and repeats the next day.

98 Percent of men and women with good hearts and beautiful inside will want someone or dream of being with someone but will not take the chance of crossing that bridge because of the fear of falling and having the bitch reality step in and shatter their dream or dreams, so they stay on the other side and keep dreaming hoping never to wake up because it may not be real but as long as you don't try to cross the bridge you will always have the dream and sometimes the love is so strong that the dream is good enough for them.

The real definition of true love? Loving someone so much that all you want is for them to be taken care of, treated like a queen, and be happy, truly happy, even if it's with someone else and not you!

Thanks for reading.

Mark