Relationships

Why do relationships have to be so hard in today's society? When I was growing up it was simple people dated for weeks to get to know each other before getting into a relationship with each other, then you told everyone, then you still dated for months before asking to marry them, then you stayed together, Why? because you loved each other and worked hard to stay together, nobody ever said it was easy peasy or it would lat no matter what, they said it takes work, you have to work together to stay together, If you broke up and ended it you had better had a good reason for it. Marriage was a sacred vow you took to love, honor and obey each other till death do you part.

A friend of mine did a pod cast about technology and being on social media sites and if they affect relationships in the world today. I believe that yes it does, you announce it on Facebook and Twitter, and the whole would can see it and tell you what they think of it, If it is a woman, the those who no hin and don't like hin will tell you to want a thing of fin and tell you basically let you hos dumb you are to want to be with him, They tell you this out of love for her because they don't want you to get hurt, Guys who like you or have a crush on you will tell you lies about him nf make shit up to stop you from being with him, they do this because they are jealous that she picked someone else then them, and will lie and try to convince her that she is dumb for wanting to be with him. So their jealousy interferes with them because they can't have her, and It is the same with guys only women doing it to them

Social media sites can end a marriage and depict what happens in it, If a woman and a man get into a fight, the woman or man will go on media sites and tell everyone, then the friends that have crushes on them take that as an opportunity to pounce like a cat on them, they think "oh yeah here is my chance yo break then up so I can have them, then they start with the apology that it happened, consoling them with kind words and then they lay on the charm, "you know I would never do that, I would treat you better" Messing with their already confused heads making them think that everything they are saying is true, Then the woman or man believe then and it's over for the couple, she or he have found something to make them happy again.

It is the same way with married couples, A woman sees a man on Facebook and likes him, she sends him a friends request. he accepts it, then they start talking, the married couple gets into a fight and he goes to his new friends to talk, she likes him and sees this as an opportunity to get him. She agrees with him and tells him he is in the right or he is right about everything, the man loves this and then wants more. Then pictures start to want to talk more and even want to see her, she sees this as she has him, and sends naughty pictures and then it is done he leaves his wife, and ut is the same with women,

We as humans have the power to influence so much, we can play with others heads and ill them with whatever we want, it only takes one fact, lies to make people think and wonder if it is true or not, then we start thinking about what we heard, the more we think and the more someone keeps putting stuff in their heads the more people think, then they want to know more or they believe what they have heard and it changes their minds about someone else, Their minds are changed, maybe the things woman and men tell other women and men they want makes them feel better then their own relationships, and they want out and to be with the new person.

It has happened to me, I worked with a gal and she would flirt with me and I would flirt back, just harmful flirting, I liked it and she, liked it, we went outside of work with it, texting each other or talking on Facebook messenger, when they had a fight I would be there for her to talk and every time we did feelings got stronger, and she was happily married. No nothing came out of it or happened, We talked and I told her that her feelings were under false pretensions, we flirted and have fun and that was it, that she still loves her husband and just because I made her feel special doesn't mean he doesn't or can't, she just needed to sit down and talk to him.

So, see it can happen, If it wasn't for cell phones or Facebook we would never have talked outside of work, feelings would not have started.

So yes social media sites can destroy a good marriage because it is so easy for someone to get inside another person's head and mess with their minds, if there were no social media sites then it would not happen, they have no access to the person every day and would never know if there were problems in the relationship or what the problems were about.

To me it's simple!

DONT GO PUTTING YOUR PERSONAL LIFE ON SOCIAL MEDIA SITES PERIOD, That kind of stuff should only be between the man and woman. the only ones who do that are the ones who are looking for someone to step in and make them feel better and want someone else and know that Facebook and Twitter are places they can find one new, which means they wanted out in the first place Period!

Thank for Reading.

Mark

DREAM

Yes, yes, yes, yes a million times yes, if asked the right question my answer would be yes