Is romance dead? Is it come to where men only do special things for their girlfriends or wives on special days, days like Valentine's day, their birthday, and maybe Christmas?
Is it only allowed to send flowers and do special things for women when you are first dating and only the first five or six months that you dating and then get together, Then what you got her, so you don't have to be nice anymore? You don't have to make her feel special because you won her over and now she is yours?
Who made this rule? Who has the book and the manual on life, Who made this rule? I want to see the manual of life and where it says you only have to make her feel special until she is yours, then you don't have to anymore! I want to meet the person who said this? I want to know where he got this load of crap from? Was it society that depict how we treat the ones we love? how we woo them and then once we get them we stop because we got them and don't need to treat them that way anymore?
As most of you know I have been talking to someone, she is 'Make my heart Beautiful, Take a breath away Gorgeous and Drop-dead Sexy' (And no, no names will be mentioned here so don't ask, she knows who she is) Anyways I tell her all the time, every morning she gets a message from me that starts out with good morning Beautiful or good morning Gorgeous or good morning sexy, We were talking one night and she apologized to me, I asked what for and she replied because I don't always reply when you tell me something sweet, she said it was because no guy had ever talked to her like that and had never said words to her like that, so she was flattered bunt was not sure how to reply to the words,
Enough about her, I know she reads these so. yeah don't want to go into too many details, Hope she is not upset about this.
But it made me think what happened to men and being romantic? what happened to making them feel special not only when you first meet but every day after that, even if you get married, what rule says you have to stop? Just because you got her you don't have to do little things to show her how special she is to you anymore?
I really am ashamed to be a man nowadays because so many men treat women like they are an object. like they are just a prize, it's like the arcade games at a county fair or a carnival, you keep playing until you win, then you get the prize and it is over, you got what you want to you don't have to play anymore, you got the woman so you don't have to anything special anymore, you got the prize., Come on guys you make the rest of us look bad.
My grandfather raised me, I did not have a da or a father I had well a sperm donor, I had noon to teach me how to be a man because he did want me or anything to do with me, so my grandfather stepped up.
He always told me that you treat a lady like a lady, and you never stop even if or when you get them, he said when you love someone you spend the rest of your life treating them as an equal, taking care of them, loving them unconditionally, spoiling them and pinning for the rest of your life and die miserably. He said but you won't have to die miserably, because if you do what I said, they will make you just as happy.
He told me that woman was created for the rib of man for a reason. One was because it was close to a man's heart to be loved by them, from the side so they could walk with them, not behind them or in front of them but side by side, He took a rib from under the arm so she could bright there and he could use his arm to protest her and put his arm around her so she knows she is an equal and protected by him.
I asked him one day how will I know she is the right one? he said your heart will tell you, I said but the heart can be deceived, he said yes it can, I said so how do I know if my heart has been deceived or not? he said the heart can be deceived but it knows this, that is why it stays silent, you see Mark, the hear knows everything, when you meet the right one your heart will talk to you, it will tell you she is the right one, it will also give you words to say to her, the words you want her to hear so she will know they are from the heart and not your mind.
I have been with women before, and I will not say I did not love them, but I was never in love with them because my heart never gave me words to say to them.
But this lady I do hear my heart, I hear the words and speak them to her, so if she is reading this, now you know why I say the things I say, My heart tells me the words and I speak them to you, they are from the heart, I get surprised at the words I speak as well because I have never had anybody that has made me heart talk to me or speak the words too. Guess it is a first for both of us, but I do know one thing for sure, I will never stop saying the words because my heart will not let me stop.
Maybe I am what I say "I am unique, I am one of a kind" maybe that's why I say it because I know, how I am, I believe a Beautiful woman should hear every day how Beautiful, or how Gorgeous and Sexy she is every day, she should be spoiled everyday wether its is with words or gifts, She should be reminded every day how much you love her and not just hear the words but be shown, sometimes words can be just that, words only, anyone can say them, but actions speak louder than words and prove the words are true. So if you say the words, then do something to prove them. it's that simple
So come on guys, I know most of you were raised the treat women right, so let's get back to doing stuff for our girlfriends or wives or the one you are dating, lets's put the romance back into their lives everyday not just on special occasions, Restore women faith in men again.
I put this song on another blog back a while ago, This is how a man should be with the women he is dating, living with, or married to.
One...you're like a dream come true......
Two... just wanna be with you...
Three... Gurl its plain to see...that you're the only one for me...and
Four...repeat steps one through three...
Five... make you fall in love with me...
If ever I believe my work is done....then I start Back at On
This ^^^^^^^ is how every real man should be and do for the one he loves. you should never stop proving to her what she means to you and how much you love her, go through the steps, and when your done start back at 1.
Thank you for reading, I hope you liked it.
Mark Baker
This part really just shows how I feel about this certain person, the last part shows what she has done for me pretty accurately.
It's undeniable...that we should be together...
It's unbelievable how I used to say that I'd fall never
The basis you need to know if you don't know just how I feel,
Then let me show you now that I'm for real...
If all things in time, time will reveal...
Say farewell to the dark night...I see the coming of the sun... I feel like a little child..whose life has just begun... You came and breathed new life, Into this lonely heart of mine... You threw out the lifeline...just in the Nick of Time.
(I don't own the rights to this song or any of the lyrics used here,)
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